What is manifesting and why does it matter?

Manifesting is described in many ways on the internet. Some people believe to manifest what you desire you have to write it down, connect with the spirit world and chant it under the moon for a year. No shade against those that believe in this method, I believe we all have different approaches and I encourage doing what makes you happy (without hurting others of course)

My manifestation strategy involves believing in what I want and at the same time believing in myself. To have energy that centres on what I desire and doing everything I can to get what I want. I believe manifestation is a combination of desiring something and doing everything in our power to achieve it.

I know a lot of ladies struggle with esteem issues when their looks are in the equation. There are a lot of standards the world puts on us, and it’s obviously impossible to keep up with every single one of them. We are all different, and we should celebrate that.

I believe if you want to manifest beauty in your life, you should do it and shouldn’t feel any shame. We should strive for whatever we want, as long as we know that we’ll have to do our part in getting it.

So, what is beauty to you?

If you want beauty in your life, it’s time to decide what beauty means to you. To make any goal attainable it has to be specific.

Do you want to have clearer skin? A toned body? A wardrobe change? To love yourself without feeling any shame? To have a more outgoing personality?

All of them are attainable goals and none are better or worse. Once you know what kind of beauty you want to manifest, it’s time to move to the next step.

Believe it’s achievable

Remember that thing I said about your goals being specific? It makes it easier to achieve one goal and move on to the next. 

You don’t want to, for example, “be the most beautiful woman in the world” because that’s impossible, there’s nothing like that. Beauty means a lot of things to different people. 

Belief in what beauty means to you should be what takes centre stage ladies.

So let’s say, you believe if you were more outgoing your beauty would shine more. This is good because it means we know what we should do next. 

And maybe you’re an introvert who has trouble with anxiety when around large groups of people. You can focus all your energy on taking each step as it comes — until you’re comfortable meeting more and more people.

The heart of any manifestation is belief. And we can only believe in something if we truly want it. Because once we know what we desire ladies, we stop at nothing until we get it.

Use positive affirmations

Encourage yourself every day and don’t feel defeated. Part of manifesting is surrounding yourself with people that share your energy and want the best for you. 

It’s all part of the belief that you can achieve that beauty we spoke of. 

Using that example of becoming more outgoing, If you have friends that love and care about you, they will encourage you when you try going out. 

All of this feeds into your development.

Continue to love yourself

You are not a machine. You have feelings, and they’re essential.

Don’t gaslight yourself and believe what you want doesn’t matter. It does matter — because you want it. 

No one will be forcing us to do it, so it’s worth doing, and we deserve the positive results that come from it.

Keep moving forward

Keep taking action. Every step forward means you get closer to manifesting what you want into reality. 

Results will not always be immediate; the key is to be patient. Everything will work out.

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