5 Ways To Know You’re Dealing With a Classy Lady

1) They Value And Respect Others

The thing about a classy lady is that she understands the value of others; this comes from having done work on herself. Classy ladies put their best foot forward when interacting with other people. Not because those other people “deserve” it, but because it comes naturally. 

Understanding the value of a “thank you” when a job is well done is something that comes from a classy lady. 

Calling the manager and harassing employees at the smallest setback is the opposite of being a classy lady.

2) They Have Empathy And Compassion

This goes hand in hand with the first point. Empathy comes from a place of self-control and understanding. 

A classy woman refuses to make a scene, lash out or be mean to others simply because it’s convenient. They think of the bigger picture:

“If I say this, how will it make this person feel?”

That’s not to say classy women don’t stand their ground. They absolutely do. But only when it’s necessary.

Think about it: It takes far less effort to become a rage monster than it does to look at the situation from all angles and respond calmly. Being a classy woman isn’t easy, but it can be, if you work hard at it 😉

3) Classy Ladies Know It’s Not All About Them

Classy ladies understand that when there’s a conversation, they don’t have to speak over others. They understand that they’ll always have an opportunity to speak.

Want to know who bickers through conversation and insults others to get their way? The opposite of a classy lady.

It takes incredible skill to be able to listen to someone, and when they’re done, address what they said without making it about ourselves. If everyone could do this, the world would be full of classy ladies, lol let’s hope that happens sooner rather than later, eh?

4) Classy Ladies Have Integrity

When I talk about integrity I mean having the desire to be real in all we do. Doing things because they are right and we believe in them — not because we want to win points in our social circles.

Classy ladies understand that integrity is important because that is how we form meaningful connections. Integrity also means classy ladies understand that respect is earned and isn’t simply given.

It’s about the ladies having a standard of living they choose to live by; a code. And living by that code means carrying values that are not easily broken.

People with integrity attract a lot of people because they’re inspiring. Such is the nature of our classy goddesses.

5) A Classy Lady Is Confident, Not Arrogant

That’s the thing, right? When someone is good at what they do, they gain confidence. Which is great.

The problem comes when people go out of their way to show how good they are at something. Or when they start to believe they are the best and no one else can match up. That’s arrogance.

Classy ladies are confident, and they don’t need to prove anything to anyone. They’re satisfied knowing how capable they are without having to prove to others how much of a boss they are. 

People usually find out how powerful these types of ladies are when they try pushing them around. At which point they learn they’re messing with a celestial dragon. But it’ll be too late to retreat lol

How to know you’re dealing with a classy lady 

(Lightning Round):

• A classy lady is always willing to learn because they understand the world is full of knowledge.
• A classy lady has goals and ambitions. They have dreams they pursue and they work hard to achieve them. Not because other people are after the same thing; but because it’s something that fulfills them.
• Classy ladies empower other women and don’t push them down. Instead of seeing other ladies as competition; they see their spirit-sister/fellow goddess. Choosing to uplift and not ridicule.

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