This list may look like it’s for heterosexual couples, but if you look closer you’ll notice it works for any sexual orientation. What makes us attractive to others can be found in many places, but I believe we should carry the same values we seek to find in others.
Attraction does not only mean intimate relationships, it can also mean potential friendships. To have long-lasting friendships, or to build something more, you’ll notice that these qualities I’m about to share are a necessity.
1. Independence
Knowing how to manage life all on your own is challenging, but it’s possible. A woman who can take care of herself without having to rely on anyone is powerful; a goddess. It takes courage and a willingness to know ourselves deeply for us to arrive at this level of independence.
Anyone can feel lonely, anyone can feel like they need others to function. Independent women understand this, but what makes them especially attractive is how they know how to operate when they don’t have anyone.
Now imagine how well this woman would operate when she has someone in her life who has done the same. Someone who has done all the work, and continues to (as they have). Pure magic in motion.
2. No Time For Gossip
Gossip is for morally bankrupt people. It’s for people who have very little going on in their lives. You never see our attractive ladies participating in these games. They are instead pursuing their dreams and thinking about upcoming projects.
Gossip is simply for the insecure.
3. They Have Integrity
Integrity is the willingness to be honest with ourselves and others. It’s understanding that honesty and truth should always come first and not ego. Attractive women make sure to point out when they’ve made a mistake and they don’t make it anyone else’s problem.
Attractive women don’t feel like they’ve lost power by asking others for help. They look forward to learning and constantly improving themselves.
4. Not Desperate For Attention
Goddesses are not desperate for two reasons. First, they don’t look for other people to complete or validate them. And second, they naturally get a lot of attention wherever they go because they are very good at what they do.
People who know what they’re doing and are good at it naturally attract attention. They don’t need to fish for it.
There’s a difference between knowing you’re a goddess and pretending to be one. When you put in the work, you don’t need to act like a goddess. You simply become one; everyone will see it without you having to tell them.
5. They Can Manage Their Own Emotions
Raging like a wild animal and “attractive woman” don’t mix. To be clear, I’m not saying we’re not allowed to be angry, we can be. However, what separates attractive women is how they carry themselves. They stay level-headed, and they don’t turn into fire-breathing dragons just to prove a point.
Of course, it’s not easy to be able to stay clear-headed when we’ve been insulted for example. But being able to tell someone off with grace is not only inspirational, but it sets you apart from people that believe being petty is the solution. Spoiler: It isn’t.
6. They Are Effective Communicators
Making their point without insulting or hurting others. Allowing others to speak without cutting them off. Understanding what other people are saying even when they disagree.
These are the qualities of a goddess; qualities I believe we should all aspire to have.
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